Ashu, Since you have aana jana with Khagendra Sangraula, please ask him to go for Vipassyana meditation. YOu probably might have got long list of books from Khagendra to read. But the best gift in return from you to him could be the path to meditation. Do not think that Khagendra is too rigid, afterall everything is impermanent. YOunever know when he can change. Vipassyan will show him to break is ego. He seriousely needs the treatment. Meditation the best one for him.