In response to Bittertruth's message I replied him the following message:

"I also put my view forth to you regarding the seemingly negative implications of your postings. 

Especially when the posting you replied to was a FACEBOOK user, which in fact shows that the person is real and deserves common respect as human being and not vindictive speculations on their motive, from an anonymous user. 

Also, please note that if I communicate with you via sajha messaging, it is a one to one communication and not an invitation to publicize the issue at hand by posting in kurakani. This is something that needs to be resolved by your acknowledgement of respecting other sajha members without accusing them of lowly activities."

Whenever I sent a message to user to tone down their behavior, it should not be taken as a threat. Sajha has a goal of being accessible to a large audience and any behavior that discourages new users from participating in sajha will need to be checked if everyone is to feel free to post thier problems and issues.

Bittertruth's response to thread Room Available for Girl displayed unnecessary negativity in my opinion to a person with family and kid representing his real self by posting as a Facebook user.

"girls??? no reason , nothing??

beware girls, could be peepshow somewhere...

I've read news everywhere.. of these pervs...

not saying you are but, just expressing"

Bittertruth I don't have any personal problems with you, and I appreciate your participation in sajha and I hope this will not be a deterrent in your sajha experience. It's just that you have to respect the goals of this site so that there is no conflict of interest between the sajha goals and what you might consider harmless personal fun and frolic.

I and I am sure many others have enjoyed your intelligent conversations within sajha threads and I hope you will continue to be an active member here.

Happy New Year!