Posted by: bittertruth January 1, 2012
Bye folks, this is my last post take care
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Okay, I admit I've went way overboard at times, and I was warned, I took it. I accepted it. That was couple of times.
I don't know for some reason, SAN is suppresive towards my comments.

Somewhere on the thread, some guy made a post for wanting 'O N L Y  Girls' needed for his house as roommate.
I wrote comment not abusive not foul tone, nothing like that.. just a thought .. like "hey females, what could be his motives for wanting only female roommates. He could be perv, not saying he is" something like that.

But SAN's message pops up on when I log in to sajha, and look what he has to say , " 
Hi Bittertruth, this is my third message to you regarding your postings in sajha.

At sajha we encourage everyone to feel comfortable in posting their opinions and help wanted posts, and postings like yours below discourages people from postings. I hope we do not have any more conflict of interest.

"girls??? no reason , nothing??

beware girls, could be peepshow somewhere...

I've read news everywhere.. of these pervs...

not saying you are but, just expressing"

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And, this is how I replied SAN:
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Okay, so how do you decide, they're legit or not. This site is like craigslist to nepalese. Don't know what they really are cooking. I was just expressing my thought. Their posting was like 'only girls'. I'm not arguing with you, but you are like way way suppressive. So, I just put a thought. If a guy has paid you, put a note somewhere it's a classified or paid posting. That way they'll know it's legit. Else, you don't want to be in a position where craigslist is, all those court things because someone committed crime through their messages ..exchanged. And one more thing, I've not accused the posting owner of being perv. I just put forth my view, get that please.

he has been silently warning me for my posts before. I wrote as per response to agree with those terms because I know I went overboard, but looking at this message, I'm stunned how he's trying to put leash even on simple comments made like that on free internet.

And, I don't really like to be monitored the way the person is doing.

Adios all Sajha friends. :D 
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