Posted by: bittertruth December 23, 2011
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pinpoint, I'm sorry to hear that but it seemed like your supervisor doesn't like you. She may be doing it intentionally or may be not. I don't know how you feel but you never argue with a woman(am assuming you a guy, but if you are a woman than you are being way too sensitive). You always throw words of appraisal 'hey, you look good,... ' 'you are great'..etc even if you don't mean it. these are small things that leave impression and eventually turn all bitterness to something good. Supervisor!! you don't want to mess with them, they're your second boss. so, just listen to what they've to say, even if you make mistakes, it'll be their fault because you took their orders. Believe me, eventually, they'll start listening to you, or they think twice before speaking out against you.
so, you are saying 'yes, yes' whatever crap your roommate is throwing at you just because you are dependant on him for a ride. you better stop that attitude, he doesn't own you, you've life, try to be independent, find means of transportation.. and have healthy arguments. Just fearing you may lose the ride, it's stupid. You are not getting smarter bro/sis, you are becoming scared, lack of confidence and losing ground.
solution:
acceptance is the key. I'm telling you because that's my experience. I'm happy now, I had situations like yours.
Acceptance is the answer to all my problems today. When I am disturbed, it is because I find some person, place, thing or situation -- some fact of my life -- unacceptable to me, and I can find no serenity until I accept that person, place, thing or situation as being exactly the way it is supposed to be at this moment.
more you resist, more you suffer. just accept. This part of life, you need to work with others. On the way, don't forget you could be seen as being argumentative as well. So, just don't accuse other they are being argumentative. You could be one. If you think your supervisor is stupid, she wouldn't be supervisor, they didn't appoint her just supervisor cos of her stupidity.
Accept your surrounding. okay?? This is an elderly suggestion to you.
so, you are saying 'yes, yes' whatever crap your roommate is throwing at you just because you are dependant on him for a ride. you better stop that attitude, he doesn't own you, you've life, try to be independent, find means of transportation.. and have healthy arguments. Just fearing you may lose the ride, it's stupid. You are not getting smarter bro/sis, you are becoming scared, lack of confidence and losing ground.
solution:
acceptance is the key. I'm telling you because that's my experience. I'm happy now, I had situations like yours.
Acceptance is the answer to all my problems today. When I am disturbed, it is because I find some person, place, thing or situation -- some fact of my life -- unacceptable to me, and I can find no serenity until I accept that person, place, thing or situation as being exactly the way it is supposed to be at this moment.
more you resist, more you suffer. just accept. This part of life, you need to work with others. On the way, don't forget you could be seen as being argumentative as well. So, just don't accuse other they are being argumentative. You could be one. If you think your supervisor is stupid, she wouldn't be supervisor, they didn't appoint her just supervisor cos of her stupidity.
Accept your surrounding. okay?? This is an elderly suggestion to you.