Posted by: jantare1 December 18, 2011
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3 things i drew from her post:
- the guy is nice
- so is she
- guy's family treats her well
what the hell is their problem? i'm pretty sure the problem is not financial (since they are professionals). neither it is a family issue because the guys family loves her as their daughter. she just says, "problem is he is not good to me because now we both know, we are not made for each other." what does that mean? is it just because they fight all the time in redundant issues regardless of their good life? or is it because they can't sexually satisfy each other? another theory is that the lady is in an affair with another male or vice verca. she needs to be more clear.
the whole concept of "made for each other" is just a myth. you will not find anyone who is already perfect for you. you make necessary compromises and perfect each other. i'd like to ask that lady a question: what are the odds that you'll find someone else that supposedly is "made for you"? none! you might divorce your husband to find a better partner but there's no guarantee that you'll find a better one.
key: it all depends on what you want. if you are not happy with each other, there is no point in maintaining a fake relationship. but think and prepare well for both short term and long term consequences before you pull the trigger.
- the guy is nice
- so is she
- guy's family treats her well
what the hell is their problem? i'm pretty sure the problem is not financial (since they are professionals). neither it is a family issue because the guys family loves her as their daughter. she just says, "problem is he is not good to me because now we both know, we are not made for each other." what does that mean? is it just because they fight all the time in redundant issues regardless of their good life? or is it because they can't sexually satisfy each other? another theory is that the lady is in an affair with another male or vice verca. she needs to be more clear.
the whole concept of "made for each other" is just a myth. you will not find anyone who is already perfect for you. you make necessary compromises and perfect each other. i'd like to ask that lady a question: what are the odds that you'll find someone else that supposedly is "made for you"? none! you might divorce your husband to find a better partner but there's no guarantee that you'll find a better one.
key: it all depends on what you want. if you are not happy with each other, there is no point in maintaining a fake relationship. but think and prepare well for both short term and long term consequences before you pull the trigger.