I got married 3 year back! and its never touched my heart. But I have to live my life with same man till my life ends for this birth. have to wait another birth to get my life back, to get happiness and freedom,  to do what makes me happy.
I am working professional. Cant share my pain with anyone as its not any kind of harassment i am getting from my in-laws or from my husband. Its like personal liking and disliking. we got married and came to know we are not made to travel life together. we think opposite to each other. He thinks once we will have children we will go ahead with life. But what if still don't get alone. I think the next generation who from from us will have to suffer a lot more than us.
I have no option to revert this action of my life. I wish I could do anything and get back to the time when I was not married. I could say no! I don't want to get married this man, I have seen life with him. Need to re-plan my life my own way. I wish I could do it.

Only option I see in my life is getting divorce! But question is should I opt it or not. I should go ahead with this legal remedy for my emotions of life or live my life with what it gave to me.

The man I married is not a bad person at all. he is good to many others. but problem is he is not good to me because now we both know, we are not made for each other. we dont enjoy singal minute of life together. Family of my Man is very supportive. They Love him as well as give me love like their daughters! Getting Divorce will hurt all of them.

BUT MY QUESTION is when I am not happy with him and he is not happy with me. What should I do?? wait for another birth or move ahead with divorce????? Plz suggest me what to do.

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