@janterei, sorry but your would-be wife could be ***king someone else out there.
She could be hoping to be here jumping on your back. :D  One out of thousands could-be chances.
I wish I'm wrong here but don't withhold yourself doing anything fun.
Just a  precautionary humble note., preparedness is better than regret.

I'm happy, I made this town my town. I'll settle down here sooner or later.