Cublas, analytical approach on 'gayism' ( atleast not derogatory) but not convincing. I dont know if all gay men and women are pressurized to get married ( not in the west) and I dont think you were pressurized to fall in love with a girl whom you are dumping, betraying and cheating ( you are helping her in your own word) very kind of you Sir. You wrote, " if homosexuality were a choice, I would choose to have a normal life" that means you are telling homosexuality is abnormal. Excuse me gentleman, if you go back to your first post when you first rolled up your sleeve to throw yourself into the ring of this arguement you have told it is normal and natural. You are contradicting yourself.

OK , you broke up with your girlfriend now, told your family about your gayness (not offending term) now you have your same sex partner( hopefully brawny and brainy). As days go by scenario changes, so does our mind. what if you get old and want someone to look after you? what if you want to have a baby with this man? like Elton John. what if you dont want to adopt baby but want from surrogating? what if surrogate mother fights for surrogacy right? are you prepared for all these 'ifs and buts'?