Dude:
Homosexualy is mental problem. I suggest you to live normal life, ( in jail anybody can be Homosexual lack of other option of having sex) , if u do not love yr girl friend change her, keep banging both man n women but do not mess your life declaring guy. It is senseless to declare, u can enjoy with male friend keping secret, What the meaning if two guy can not reproduce another life ? Fuuk n enjoy w/ friend