Rasikajji,
After reading you flooding sajha with all your negativity towards man I cant help but put up some of things I want to say to you.
It seems like, you have this prejudice towards men even before you meet them and decide on them. If you already have prejudice, you will always have negative impression on anyone and as they say first impression is last impression, that will be so with any men you meet. and thats where your relationship will hit the rock bottom.
Well, negativity toward all men is another thing. But it even seems like you have negativity toward all the poor people either. In that other thread, this guy was merely asking for a help to find a work. He/she was not even asking for money. He/she was just asking if he can work and if anyone can help him/her find one. What is wrong with asking for work? Are you not working? Maybe your parents are rich enough so you have privilage not to work and come here and bitch about all human race. But not all people are as rich as you, so they need to work so that they can eat two meals a day. I hope you realize this reality pretty soon as if something happen to your family's wealth I am not sure, how you will survive in this cruel world.
Now to the last point, you said you came to sajha looking for your Ram and instead found Rawan everywhere.
I would choose Rawan over Ram any given time a day. Here are the some of reasons why:
a) Ram was the one who pushed the button first. Rawan's sister was just in love with Lakshman, there was no need to cut her nose just because she liked him.
b) Yeah Rawan did took Sita away. But keeping her in captivity for so many years, He respected her. He did not even touched her all those years when he could have done anything to her in captivity.
c)When Hanuman came to visit Sita, Rawan treated him with respect, it was Hanuman who disrespected him and burned more than half of Lanka.
d) Rawan never cheated in any war. Ram won the war by cheating. He killed Bali by cheating, he killed Rawan by cheating.
c) When Ram got Sita back, He made her walk on fire, just to see if she is 'sati sabitri' for her, now imagine your husband doing that to you meeting after years.
d) Just because one person in his kingdom is not satisfied, he sent his pregnant wife to jungle. or maybe he still has suspisions about her since long and that person just triggered his alarm.
Now who would you choose? Rawan or Ram? 
Well that being said, I hope you learn a thing or two from all these and contribute to sajha rather than bringing all negativity over.
I am just another man. So you can hate me as much as any other.
Cheers.
Juggy.