"Shouldn't be crude, crass or immature. Those are such turn-offs. No pakhe types who don't know how to behave around educated ladies, please. Those men are best being conductors of buses and riding rickshaws around Ratna park."

I am usually a passive reader in sajha. But your above comment made me speak up. You said dont want someone who is immature. But there's something very wrong about the last half of your sentence above. If you do not know how to respect all human beings irrespective of their profession, how mature are you yourself?

PS Although somethings tells me that rasika kanchi isn't an innocent girl looking for that perfect person and is just someone trying to start an interesting thread provoking sajha readers. I had to reply.