I think that sajha is the wrong place for these discussions. People here are not civilized, open-minded enough or respectful enough to have discussions about experiences that take place beyond the narrow confines of their reality.

You don't have to agree with everything or anything that someone is saying. But at least just listen and let people finish their story before interrupting.

Mero desh. I agree with you. There are many of us who want to hear. I wish there was a better forum for discussions like this. Do you have any suggestions of a different place where Nepalese go to talk about topics like this?

Sajha is clearly not the place.

The problem is that not enough people raise their voice to have discussions like this in a civilized way here. And so only the rowdy noise is the only thing that is heard. Maybe that is why us Nepalese cannot advance our own life or our nations.

Our politicians are a reflection of the mentallity of the people. And the nation is a reflection of the mentallity of the politicians. So next time any of us raise our tongue to criticise Nepal or Nepali politicians, let us first go and look in the mirror at our own faces. 

When we can only act rowdy like un-educated YCL members, even in sajha, then what hope is there for the nation? 

Maybe there is some truth to it when Indians say that Nepalese will never evolve in mentallity beyond being kanchas, kanchis, bahudurs and prostitutes. 

Is it any wonder we can't write a national consitution? We don't even know how to listen to a point of view that is different from our own without feeling threatened and needing to shut the other person up before they have completed their sentence.