" I have seen so many people I knew going back home, getting married....and if they couldn't brought 'em ova here in time....then thats the point it gets real krazzy.....gawd they skype like all nite myan....seriously.!! "

Isn't that right? One of my acquaintances living in Nepal is having an affair with a married woman (her hubby is in the U.S.) and it literally broke my heart when I found out about it yaar. The last thing I'd do is get married in Nepal and leave my wifey back home. I just wouldn't be able to bear the longingness and distance between us. 

I reckon I'm on the right track as for now. Hopefully, my dream of going to Brazil WC 2014 with my wife will come true. 

Unbelievably enough, dissident's post about marriage turning him into a better person sorta encouraged me. I'm a mature, smart, witty and decent person myself but I'm starting to realize that the lack of motivation, encouragement and drive to 'become' something can be attributed to a lack of woman in my life - not to say that I'm not enjoying my life but still, there are times when I just don't push myself harder to become something because I don't really need to worry about taking care of anybody except me.

I was probably a tad foolish while in college for not looking for Nepali girls (was too busy hanging out with Americans) and I'd highly encourage y'all (especially the ones in Junior and Senior years) to pick/find a suitable match in time. I don't really regret it but things could've been perhaps different (I had fun dating Americans but dating them was like living with cancer, you always knew it was going to end, especially since I'd made up my mind on marrying to nobody but a Nepali girl) It seems more important if you're planning to live here and you need to worry about visa status etc. But that said, don't make finding a match a priority. Bust your ass to finish your college education and securing a path to success but having a woman on your side would be awesome too. 

Mero bihe ma chahin timilai ni bolaula.