Homiji,

First, the title you have given to the topic is misleading. When I read it first I thought you are talking about the role of mom and wife from a son and husband’s point of view. I think we have explored that avenue of the relationship to its extent. Thanks to Indian tv shows, they made me realize the misery of being man in my early age ;). Second, when I read your elaboration, I got further disappointed. I would have been more than happy if you had said “role of woman in a family”. Well, if you are thinking it is just the matter of choosing words, than you are wrong. Words reflect individual’s wit and the way you have put forth your words, I feel, you see your woman just as a wife and as a mom. It always bothers when woman is defined by her relationships. She is an individual herself. Recognizing and respecting each other individuality is key to build up a good family. Either she wants to stay home and raise kids or she wants to become an activist or a corporate hot shot that must be her choice. If any woman complains that she has compromised her goal/dream because of getting married or having kids or other way around then she is not resolute enough. I have seen spoiled family of stay home wife and blissful home of working mom. Hence, woman is not solely responsible for building a good family. A good family is build up by individuals (man and woman) who share it with their attributes and understanding. Naturally, women are more likely to express love and care, which gives emotional comfort to other family members.

P.S. I have not read other comments. If I am chanting same mantra, ignore me.