Footyfan,

I think I missed your point a second time around also. Perhaps it's because I'm slow. Maybe my mother didn't raise me as well as your mother raised you.

I still don't understand what you are saying. Who do my great-grandmother, my grandmother, my aunts and all the rest of the women in my family need to prove themselves to before they can feel satisfied that their life was successful as 'house wives' aka home economists?

I am just trying to figure out from where it is that you get the arrogace to tell the members of my family that they should not have been fulfilled with the lives they led.