@footyfan, that does not justify his lower thoughts. He can tear his so called higher academic certificates. We are educated and we need to teach same thing to our parents, otherwise how will society progress. If we do not teach them these things, who else will teach them? Our parents are one generation ahead of us.

The guy who is looking for bahu_ni girl may say that it is easy to say and I can only feel the paid if I be in his position. Well, I am from bah_un family....I never wanted to get married to same caste girl. I didn't give up because I want to change thoughts of my parents because I belive caste is one major problem in Nepal which is root cause of most of the other problems. I searched girl from other caste, felt full oppose from family as well as relatives....I took many years to convince all people around me, especially my parents...but finally I got married with non-bah_un girl. It is easy to choose easy way.....but tough to go hard way. But we need to remember that if everyone choose easy way..how can you expect to see change in the society? 

I do not however mean, just do what you want and not care for parents. We need to care them and make them understand. That's why it took me several years and those were most tough times of my life.