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integration of different types of people into  Neplai mainstream is the problem today. We need to solve this problem according to present day international norms and law. Different people have different personal experiences we are not going to solve this problem based on personal experience

All vahuns cant be BP, all newa cant be Ganeshman, all  kshtris cant be Dasrath Chand. there are people from certain group who want to change National flag because it doesnt represent entire population.Because of some corrupted politicians you cant blame entire group.

you said madhesis keep their money in indian banks thats true they do there may be many rerasons like, no Nepali bank facility nearby , influence of Indian banks advertisement.or not trusting the Nepali banks. Tt the same time you must know that some Nepali army chiefs, police chiefs have houses in  Gorgaon ( in delhi) which is usually not aceptable (because they move Nepali  money to India. lots of pahade politicians also have their money in indian bank.
Lots of hindi speaking businessmen of Nepali have money in singapore, so do many so called pahade/janjaati and naywar businessmen.
Point is when when a pahade/janajaati/naywars have money in India/singapore they are not considerd anitnepali but when a businessmen from terai have money deposited in indian or banks in singapore they are called anti Nepali that is double standard

when a so called pahade/janjaati/naywars follow Indian life style (Indian food, indian dress, indian entertainment, Indian dance) that is ok but a madhesi guy (because of thier geographical proximaty they have same local dress code) wears dhoti he becomes anti Nepali ? how come ?
Those  so called pahade/janajati/naywars have choices to chose from different dress/food and entertainment but  most of them choose Indian and still considers themselves as pure Nepali lol...lol

Choosing indian style wont corrupt their culture? wont benefit India economically ? will not that integrate them to india?  these are the same people who come here in sajha and ask why many westernrs confuse them with Indians  lol, I think they lack common sense
On the other hand as per madhesis dhoti is their traditional cloths , whats wrong in wearing them?

But go to madhes and check in educational institutes those young madhsis wear pants and shirts.Older generations wear dhotis
 
People in Janakpur love maithali songs but we dont considers maithali cultures as Nepali, whose problem is that? same is true with many other cultures.
Many of janajatis observe Tibetian Lohasars , we dont say anyhting but when a madhesi obsrve a cultural festibale whis is also obserevd southern side of the border we  think different. hey because of geographiccal proximity those htings are observed on either side of border.

regarding the influnce of indian culture and propoganda in Madhesis Indian propoganda machine  and cultural corruption is so big that it had reached up to himal. How on earth we expect madhesis to survive that?
1.lots of so called pure Nepali have willingly choosen indian life style over nepali life style 
2. lots of so called pure neplais put money in indian and singapore bank
3. lots of so called pure Neplais cantr survive without bollywood entertainment 
with all these indian copy they are still considered pure Nepali but poor madhesi because have geographilcal proximity have many similaritis with indians on south always treated as second class citizens.

regarding madhesis being pro indian.
1.Who did 1950s treaty? who did koshi and gandak treaty?
2.Who allowed  indain ambassador to distribute indain aid dirrectly to villages without the permission from govt ( surya bahdaur thapa did it when he was pm for a short period durung jana andolan)
3. Nepalese newspaprs are not allowed to sell in india but why we are allowing indian news papers in Nepal ? madhesis did that or what ?
All these pro indain ations are taken by so called pure nepalis but  why a poor madhesis have to suffer ? Just because he wears dhoti ?
if you disagree or dont like the proposal/idea or plan of some partis then please  talk about it with logic instead of blaming entire group.