I grew up being the only bahu.ni..in the circle of my friends and loved my circl.e that way!! when other [Disallowed String for - castist reference].s try to do the bahu.n thing with me..i get annoyed. i can't relate to the bah.unness...unless ofcourse they share similar history as me..which most ba.huns we meet in US don't have..believe it or not some bahu.ns even have differnet names for vegetables they eat..as well as nepali language spoken is very different of diff bah.uns depending on the region..

Not everybody in every cas.te is perfect...I agree with that!

Aba girija dekhi baburam samma so called brahmi.n bhaye pachi k laagcha..but mind u they are purbeli.s ;)! Thus, my distance towards them..