and one has his/her destination fixed or at least knows there is one and the other 

one either don't even know he/she has one or don't even care, then the first person 

is sure to be left out. First ask yourself what you want of your current relationship,

 and then ask your guy if what he wants is the same, and if it is, then you are good to go. 

If it ain't the same, then you should come to a mature decision. Being cute and smooth talker 

is like a cute Chinese item on sale, you just wanna get it, to later just find out you actually

 didn't have not use of it- you should have got something more useful and practical and shouldn't 

have hesitated to rather pay some for it if you had to..

at least you would know its worth! :)