it's hard in the beginning. the hardest part is to overcome your mind and make decision. once you decide and move on, everything will work out. if you are serious about your career, don't hesitate to hop out of your comfort zone and try things. i'll graduate from my college in a few months and move to a completely new state where i know noone. but not having anyone i know there ain't gonna stop me because just like you said, gotta lose something to gain something.