behoove_me and abodhbaalak, i don't like to blow my own horns. but, since u asked for it, let me start off by saying that i am pretty satisfied with my life here in the States. i've worked hard like any other nepalese who came here as a student. i've had different low level work, that i'm not ashamed of(gas station, grocery store, McDonald, restaurant etc. just to name a few). i have maxed out all the credit cards to finish my school( that is what my goal was when i came here).i have partied and got wasted like any other hard working international student. i've had A's, B's and even C's in my grades. i've worked in a fortune 500 company making financial gains. and so on and so forth. about not going back to nepal in 13 long years, it was my choice, not because of my immigration status. as of now, i'm happily married with a beautiful loving family. i work for no one. i'm an enterpreneur. i'm my own boss, and i make plenty for my self and to help the needy.
about being mature, i 'm sure i have matured enough not to come to any social media and whine about u'r nationality, or any othe topics like the ones u emphasised about earlier. u wanna do something, or u'r not happy about what's happening back home, don't just come here and complain about it, go back there and do something. don't try to come up with some pitiful topic to discuss with, and collect the sympathies.  u two must feel matured and superior than me. so what? go screw u'r self. peace out