Call yourself what you may, but at the end of the day it's how you act. There are many 'quires' as individuals or in non-profits who are doing more for Nepal than you and I are. Are they less 'lovers of Nepal' than many so-called patriots? Those non-Nepalese every day actions are speaking a lot louder than yours and mine words in sajha.
You don't have to keep singing 'jaya Nepal' bhajans to be able to do good for Nepal. I think many non-Nepali 'quires' show that by their example everyday by how much they are doing for Nepal. 

There are many people who call themself Nepalese but hurt Nepal by their action and lifestyle. There are many people who don't call themself a Nepali, but help and develop Nepal by their words and action. So which of the two above is a bigger Nepali?