understanding's another human's " human-ness" is worthless. everybody has their own defination of what "misery" is and "pain" is which no other man, than himself/herself can understand it well..yes, no one is great, the biggest mistake we can commit in this life is making ourselves great.. like SItara said, there is no good or bad human, like wise there is no "wise" or "understanding" human. We all fall when sorrow makes it way to US, and we ask questions "WHY" "WHY ME". this is our nature, a Human nature. There is no way to change that, no matter what. dont forgive, but forget those moments, take the right path, and at last when you look back at them, make them REALIZE....