thanks sparty bro. that gives me a bit of hope.
however my situation is a little different. i'm here in the States, she's back home and as i said earlier, we are not married yet. but i'm thinking about going in like 2 weeks and doing court marriage (because there's no time to do preparations for traditional marriage as i have to get back by the end of august to attend fall semester). during my stay home i'll also update some paperworks showing properties to fund me. well...the jist is that we are not applying at the same time. do you think that's going to be a problem?