in our society, we still think coming to usa is big deal. when will we know that just coming to usa or staying in usa is not big deal. we should not assume all people living here are good. she and her parents should have tried to know more facts about that guy before deciding one of the biggest steps of her life. i dont know, but i think we dont tell exact situation of ours here in usa, i mean how difficult and hard is life and struggle and all to our family and friends back home. most of us just think that after landing in usa, everyting will go fine and its a heaven but the reality is not like aslee simpson's show in MTV or hollywood movies.