There is no guarantee in any relationship but if you're living in America and planning to live in America, my advice is lot to marry someone who lives in America (Nepali or non-Nepali). This way, both husbands and wives know what to expect from each other and they have better understanding of successful relationship. The tragedy in my case is that I'm trying to make my parents happy and my parents say that they are trying to make me happy also. The result is we both are ending up unhappy....... and I know that right now. Myaan, I hate when my parents tell me "I want you to be happy". What am I supposed to tell them ? " Oh cool, thanks for raising me. Now I will do whatever the hell I want to do and may even marry a GORINI" ........ Nooooooooooo. Trust me, when you get " I want you to be happy" from your parents -MEANS- Big Pressure. In reality they're saying " Son/Daughter, we tried to raise you the best we could and now it is your turn. You have a moral obligation to the family. It is your duty to fulfill that. You can also be happy at the same time ( *%&#@%^&) " . What am I supposed to do ? Byabahaar garna Saarai gaaro Bidesh ma Basera. Ma ta Aaajit bhai sakey kahiley Kaahi :-(