@just can't get enough: First of all, this thing is really critical issue and glad that you poured it down here instead of keeping within yourself.

Let me tell ya sth.

First thing, you need to do is look at your parent's financial situation. Can they sustain their life themselves? Can they afford to live the basic life? If yes, then you need to tell them that you have your priorities as well so you can't send lot of money but only few money may be $100 or $200 which you spend on beers which becomes a lot to your parents. Spending $100 or $200 will not also damage your plan to have fun while being young
 

If not, then you should be ashamed of yourself. If they are not financially sound, then think how they raised you in that poor condition and made you literate person so that you can gain higher education and come to the U.S.A. If it wasn't your mum that had you while having pain for 9 months, you won't be talking sh%t like this. Had not your parents taken you to boarding school instead of government school, you won't be able to communicate so properly and talk like this. If you are lucky, you might be a DV winner and working in gas stations. So please stop this non-sense and think about what they did for you instead of what you are doing for them. You are complaining about 5 years, they raised you for 20 years.

Also,  Last but not least, you will know how much responsibilty you have when you become a Father.

Peace
Sirus_Me