I am  exactly on the same boat brother...its been almost 10 years for me out of the country working like a dog here and sacrificing everything I wanted to do but the other side does not stop expecting money from me...I have started to think exactly the same way as you do...Have built them a house, financed my sister's wedding and what not...

My dad does not do anything in Nepal and expect money from me to sustain...he is not even that old, I would have understood if he is...don't take it the wrong way, I love my family, but I just don't think I can do it any more...after all, I also have a life...I want to help them but just don't want to be the bread owner in the family while everyone else is doing nothing but just enjoying the momney I sent...