It's amazing how our Nepalese community selflessly   take out time to answer questions posted in sajha. It' really awesome. There is one thing you have to remember though ,  You can only take advice, but the decision has to be yours. There are few perks in marrying a white girl, and some mishaps. My suggestion for you is  to get as much advice as you can get, but the decision   has to be yours and yours alone-- After all nobody can feel your happiness nor pain, It's only you buddy !