I am married to white for about 7 yrs now. I have nothing but good thing to say about my wife and our marriage life.
I was on the same boat as you or even worse. My parent didn't even talk to me for about 2 yrs. Now, everything is normal and guess what, My wife don't even say one bad thing about my Parent after they treated us the way they did.
There are ups and down. She can't make Nepali dishes :( and can't speak Nepali but She is very true to heart and can't fight with my Mom (language barrier) :D