ok mind games here is the remedy 1. Nothing is the end of the Universe so whatever is the situation just say..so? 2.if you are afraid of failure....or if you fail...so?, you can always learn the lesson and start again, my failure always made me strong and i fought back and won 3.if you feel lonely its not only you there are lots of ppl who are feeling loanly that means youi are not alone. 4.if you are farid of being lonly then participate in discussion like this or any other. 5. Its your life, we are tyhe ruler of yourself, you decide (to fight back) with proudness. 6. Life is wonderful and every seconds of it is worth living.