And let's not fool ourselves by living in denial that people except Nepali don't know what Dhoti means.  Google the word.  This word is not defined by Nepali racist bahun perspective, the conventional definition prevails and moden Nepali, who are busy in conspiracies, hatred and racism, do not have the power to change it.

It's just like abusing a non native Nepali speaker in Nepali and laughing at yourself since the receiver didn't even understand it.