I have met this one guy who had gone through hell and talked to me as if I were to blamee for his unfortunate situation etc  ...He kinda blamed every Nepali and Nepal  ( Timiharu le garera Timi haru ko desh)   . I told him  to focus his anger on the government of Bhutan, but he told me, he grew up in Nepal refuge camp where it was like hell. SO i asked him why not go back to Bhutan and fight? you guys had enough men to start a fight. I forgot his exact response it was lack of money leadership etc and I asked him why you have a beef for Nepal and nepali?? He said because we Nepali people and our government did not do anything for them and let them live in hell "we are Nepali origin too" and blah blah blah and he gave me every hardship story. I listened for a while and then I told him that I felt sorry for his bad living state and no human should go through BUT I told him Nepal is a very poor country and your refuge life is no different from the millions of poor in Nepal so what did you expect being a refugee a poor country?  You were raised in Nepal and seem to be angry at Nepalese people and forgot what got you there in the first place. AND only of the bad situation in Nepal you got refugee asylum in USA, remember that.............................That shut him up, yes I feel sad for the Bhutanese People of Nepali origin. I always thought they were angry at Bhutan but this new generation seems to be angry at Nepal and Nepali more. Ive met many other bhutanese people some of them are friendly and some angry. Ke garne, its not their fault BUT that doesnt give them any right to insult Nepal and Nepali.