It's been 5 years of you being in relationship with her. Don't you think marriage is important? This shows your no intent to marry her. Girls are always insecure until marriage. What's the age of the girl now? You know, parents want to get her married b4 her age is too gone to get a decent boy for her. I guess you took her granted all these years. She stayed with you for 5 years and will stay n love u forever if u treat her right. Did you officially proposed her with a rose n ring getting down to your knees? Do you celebrate your Anniversary, do you guys talk about how u guys met time and again and do you look at her when she dresses good and give compliments, do you take her out? These r small things that matter. Remember what u used to do to her when u guys just met and what u r doing to her now. Stop treating her as a trash n she will love u again as in the first year of your relationship.