Mr.Hyde,
It's not abt telling to whom but it's abt the decision abt life. Both love eachother for 5 years and wen the guy dnt have a strong words for a girl to convince her that, ok we can get married till dis time or is not sure on his own decision, how cud a girl trust him. she denied her parents proposal for the first time coz she loves him n d guy do too..
But the main thing is till wen she hve to wait for him? at least guy should tell her. Situation between guys n girls are totally different..keti Ko Ghar maa pressure huncha bihe garne Bhane keta lai kina hatar garunu bhanne sochai huncha..so I think she should feel secure with d guy n guy should have guts to say "u r mine n I will marry u in whatever cost"
No offense to anybody