Oh well Pallavi, Great to read your story.

You should be glad that you know him better now than after marriage. Getting married won't put a stamp on his life to insult you later. I know you might have been hurt but you should be really happy that you were not caught in his maya jaal.

Long story short, find another guy who loves you by heart not only for sex.

However, you should realize that after staying in US for so long, this Nepalese bokas has also been lil americanized. Just like they want desert after dinner, they want sex in relationship ;-)....