@syanjaali: yes you are right. I haven't found anybody yet to share this problem who is trustworthy and worth advising. I am afraid since this matter includes a "girl", I have to take precautions before I express it to anybody in person. I don't know man.. May be I will be strong enough to share with you guys someday by putting the story in a different way so that those people will not be able to figure out that I expressed it online. Thank you for ur comment!