Posted by: namitrathapa March 13, 2011
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साझाबासी हो !!!
Why are people like this?
I have a friend from nepal and he is a decent guy (as I know him and his family) . During his bachelor he had affection for one girl in his class(which was natural of course for boys), when he completed his study he knew that the girl also had some felling for him ibut she never expressed it nor did my fren. He always was afraid of the if he expressed his feeling to the girl the girl might be hurt as she seems to be a stright forward girl.(this as what he told me).
After he did his bachelors got a decent job in nepal But like all of us he had his craze for comming to US . He appied to university and got his I20 and all the stuff when he was just about ready to apply for F1 he was selected for DV and got his 1st letter. As he already had a decent job in Nepal, he and his family thought that they might as well wait for DV and leave the student visa. In the mean time his girlfriend went to US in F1 and was studying there.
As some us might know how frustating the process of DV is (and his case number was very much at the last) he was not even sure if he would get the 2nd letter or not. In the mean time he used to talk with here online and stuff like that and one day his girlfriend expressed her feeling and he was very happy for hearing that. Things went well.
After sometime he go his 2nd letter, got his visa and went to US (but in the different state then his girlfriend). They would still talk in skype and MSN but had never meet each other in person in US.
One day she asked him to login to her email and see for some info as she was not able to login into the internet. This was the day when he found out that she had an affair with someelse during their studies, it was more than the affair, they were lending out money and sharing other stuff too. He just read some of their emails and found out that
The time when the girl expressed her feeling concided with the time the other guy was getting married to some other girl. And even after the guy got married his girlfriend was writing him email and personal stuff, feeling towards him etc.(till this he never felt any problem)
Then he read one mail from man (he googled and later knew that the man was immigration lawyer) and knew that his girlfriend was thinking of secertly marrying the man and live in US and this too was sent recently .
Now my friend is dreppesed not coz his girl had other man in his life(which he thinks is natural) but coz the girls lied to him when he asked if she had any one in her life besides him and she still had intensions to marry that man.
Now he knows all this but he had not told this girl any thing about this.
So साझाबासी I need help !!
Can you tell what he need to do now?
Suggest something like
सर्प पनि मरोस् लठ्ठी पनि नभाँचियोस्
Why are people like this?
I have a friend from nepal and he is a decent guy (as I know him and his family) . During his bachelor he had affection for one girl in his class(which was natural of course for boys), when he completed his study he knew that the girl also had some felling for him ibut she never expressed it nor did my fren. He always was afraid of the if he expressed his feeling to the girl the girl might be hurt as she seems to be a stright forward girl.(this as what he told me).
After he did his bachelors got a decent job in nepal But like all of us he had his craze for comming to US . He appied to university and got his I20 and all the stuff when he was just about ready to apply for F1 he was selected for DV and got his 1st letter. As he already had a decent job in Nepal, he and his family thought that they might as well wait for DV and leave the student visa. In the mean time his girlfriend went to US in F1 and was studying there.
As some us might know how frustating the process of DV is (and his case number was very much at the last) he was not even sure if he would get the 2nd letter or not. In the mean time he used to talk with here online and stuff like that and one day his girlfriend expressed her feeling and he was very happy for hearing that. Things went well.
After sometime he go his 2nd letter, got his visa and went to US (but in the different state then his girlfriend). They would still talk in skype and MSN but had never meet each other in person in US.
One day she asked him to login to her email and see for some info as she was not able to login into the internet. This was the day when he found out that she had an affair with someelse during their studies, it was more than the affair, they were lending out money and sharing other stuff too. He just read some of their emails and found out that
The time when the girl expressed her feeling concided with the time the other guy was getting married to some other girl. And even after the guy got married his girlfriend was writing him email and personal stuff, feeling towards him etc.(till this he never felt any problem)
Then he read one mail from man (he googled and later knew that the man was immigration lawyer) and knew that his girlfriend was thinking of secertly marrying the man and live in US and this too was sent recently .
Now my friend is dreppesed not coz his girl had other man in his life(which he thinks is natural) but coz the girls lied to him when he asked if she had any one in her life besides him and she still had intensions to marry that man.
Now he knows all this but he had not told this girl any thing about this.
So साझाबासी I need help !!
Can you tell what he need to do now?
Suggest something like
सर्प पनि मरोस् लठ्ठी पनि नभाँचियोस्
Last edited: 13-Mar-11 11:31 AM