why?? balak, if you answer these questions then u will find ur answer too... WHy do u whine so much? why cant u just SUCK IT UP? ( as blaspheme mentioned) why cant u just stop asking questions? (WHO SAID THEIR NEEDS to be the answer for every FRECKING QUESTIONS) WHy cant u act stupid for a while? WHY??? take it as it comes, give it as it demands, and JUST HAVE FUN! and yaah sometimes we dont have a choice ...--- watched sipder man 2 :)