i am confused i don't know if i am in love.. my frens thinks it is lust.. i have no clue what is going on.. i tried to listen to everybody and tried to move on.. but it didn't work out.. i just dumped that person without even getting to know that person.. i mean this person asked me out and i accepted the proposal and then the i never met that person, neither did i call or ever went to see that person.. infact i just ignored that persons phone calls.. and we have been friends for like a year.. i can't get over the fact about my ex.. what can i do?? i am not even sure if this is really love.. but whatever it is it is killing me..