this is what we call "Chauta khana gayeko budi jhool ma doobi mari". You left the perfectly fine Nepali woman (surely thinking her character will be less than of a typical girl from Nepal) and went all that way to marry someone you barely knew. This is the classic "cons" of arranged marriage. Let this be a lesson for all those who are thinking of going back to get married. Those days of "Satya Sabitri" are over. Our Nepali women have moved on with time, you'll have to accept it.
What world do u live in, what family were you brought up? Do u mind tell us your caste? I'm amazed that you were expecting a virgin. OMG. I thought it only happed in Pakistan.
Boy friend...seriously? Whether she tells you or nor, if that is the issue, then you should have never left Nepal. Go back, save your life. What happens when you have your own kid someday in the country? I bet you'll behead him/her if they turn out gay in the name of "honor killing".
I seriously don't think it will work even if he opens up to her, esp with that 12th century mentality.
Anyway...my dear fellow Nepali brother....GOOD LUCK.