Posted by: ricochet1991 February 15, 2011
Very Personal Problem and warning!!
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no offense but I really don't see a problem here.

The two questions that Jai_Nepal suggested are fair but I really don't think they apply to this situation. Did you expect to fall in love as soon as you took your 7 feras? Arrange marriage ma it can take years and years to actually fall in love. Although I hate throwing out numbers like this, I bet more than 50% of married couples in Nepal are unhappy and don't even "love" each other (in the traditional definition of love) but stay together because of social norms. 2nd do you expect her to give you unconditional love? Well according to hindu mythology -- perhaps... as soon as she takes her 7 feras she will go "sati" with you if you die.... but unconditional love tyo pani arrange marriage ma is  very impractical in the 21st century...

Your main suspicion seems to have arose from the fact that she knew about sex positions possibly by watching porn or having sex. Well bro, I'm sure you've also watched your fair share of porn movies. Why do guys feel that they can watch porn while girls cannot? bro timi america ko citizen hune manchey, yesto waihat kura haru le garda ramro relationship barbaad nagara. And I fully support Thebubblemouth's point in that did you really expect her to tell you about her porn watching life (and maybe sex life) before getting married? timle bihe bhaye pachi ta judge gari ra chau, bihey garnu agi ta timle ullai herda ni herdaina thiyau.... timle ni porn herchau bhanera timro keti haru lai bhanenau hola...

timro wife le bihe bhanda paila k garyo doesn't matter as long as she is faithful to you since you've been married. arrange marriage garne bhaneko nai testai ho... bistarai love parcha....



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