Well.. like erryone is saying.. i would start out being friends or atleast talking. I guess first thing is to try and get close to that person without freaking them out. Meaning, eventhouh u wanna show them the REAL you.. mayb u need start off by showing the NICER you.. no weirdness or anything..u kno wut i'm talkin bout.. then jus let him kno that u want to b more than just freinds..nothing seirous but u wanan atleast give it a try to see where things goes from there... so anyways.. dats wut i would do if the guy ddidnt ask me first.. either that or try to play it off.ask him to a casual movie date with your friends..then slowly reel him in..first go with friends, then double date, then ya kno... wink wink