For Guys: 1) Don't ask a girl out unless you really like her. We men act on impulse and moments of opportunities too much. 2) Plan on two places to go. Do not tell the girl you have a second place in mind until you know for sure that you like her. The 2nd place is a good way to keep her in your company longer. 3) If you feel confident that you have her interest and she likes you, becareful not to turn into a jerk by making moves. Physical contact should be descrete and gradual. 4) Women want sex just as bad as men. Determine if she likes you or just wants you for sex and nothing else. It would be a big mistake to confuse a booty call with a false assumption that she wants a relationship with you. 5) Pay for everything. It still makes a lady feel like a lady. Even if you don't like her. You will find women will do nice things for you even though she don't like you. Its just human nature. 6) Don't assume. Don't assume because the girl is polite, intuitive, and nice to you, that she is in love with you. 7) If you can't tell the truth, don't say it at all. Trying too hard to be interesting can backfire. Be your better half and don't strain. Don't make up conversation. Girls like to talk. Reply with interest. Use basic and well structured sentences. 8) Talk about only good things. Talking about people you can't stand at work or what angers you will not show your best side. 9) Girls go crazy when a guy gets to 3rd base with her and he backs off. She eventually goes looking for him later. So if you want the girl to come looking for you...try not to go all the way with her. 10) Don't take condom. Would you have respect for a woman who carries birth control pills in her purse? Why would a woman have respect for a man carrying condoms in his wallet? 7 Eleven is only a stop and go before you get to a hotel or god knows where you sinners go for sex. For Girls: 1) Don't be afraid to make the first move. :-)