be funny but not too funny either...most ladies dig a man wid a pleasant sense of humor.....other then that u cant do much cause when they seem like they are not interested in u, they might be but they just want u to make them feel even more "special", or when they seem like they r interested n being all nice doesn't always mean they r interested in u, but infact they pity u....and the most weird n confusing of all is, even when they tell u they r interested in u and they know u r interested in them too....they just play dumb and wait for u to make more moves, where as u r thinkin "haven't i made enuff moves already". so u see wat im sayin...anywayz man i wish u better luck!!