-- "what's your point, Chana?" --
My point is: it is hard to meet the expectation of our society (or family and friends, to be precise) for a returnee. If you are not good in "khurafati kaam", you are unlikely to success, provided that the continuation of the present system. People brag about "hard-work" after they earn money but the truth is that "Earning money without corruption is impossible in Nepal". The man who does not earn sufficient is not considered a successful person.  I have not seen a single successful person who confess that s/he is successful because s/he has used the loopholes of the system (except Hari Pandey).


-- "Will you be successful, or unsuccessful," --
Honestly, I do not know.


-- "you do not trust is statistics?" --
I trust, but I have not seen statistics of returnees yet. Those people I have seen around may not represent the population, so my current understanding may be wrong.