Pire,

I was trying to understand what you are saying in your post.

There is a saying, "If you cannot be a part of the solution, then you are probably part of the problem."

Pire, are you saying that Nepal doesn't need another negative complainer simply there in the country whining that 'oh my life could have been better if it wasn't for these politicians?' Nepal needs professionals who can be a part of the solution. Nepal needs people who can think, lead, and actively participate and motivate.
So if someone can't do that, it is better they stay in America and take care of their life and not contribute to Nepal's burden of problems. But, on the other hand, if you have your act togethor, then the nation could use one more capable professional who can work towards the solution without being himself/herself a problem.

Pire, is that what you're saying?