that is because Nepali people live their life to other peoples' expecations. Showing off and making sure that other people think cool about yoruself is worth being away from friends and family and working as slaves for nothing. but we still look for ways to stick around because we are so used to of the comfortzone of being in a mess, and still people think we are in better position so come to sajha to vent our frustration but dare not to go Nepal. Everyone knows that as soon as you go to Nepal your tution, rent, citizenship problems will be fixed but you would rather stick around and complain but not make that big move.

as bhagwan said, Sukha nai dukha ko karan ho..