Sidster, you have some good points and I agree with them.
But I have add something in your point number 4.

Sending Nepalese overseas has both pros and cons. Today we see most of the Nepalese selling brain in WEST and labor in GULF, this is a bitter truth of under development of Nepal. What country needs for development? Brain, Labor and Capital. Foreign Aids suffice the capital requirement, there is no doubt.

In current scenario, national level plans regarding foreign employment should focus on the idle human resources who are involved in dirty Nepali politics. Majority of YCL, Ne Bi Sangh, ANNFSU students are idle human resources who neither are good in studies nor good for society and are the wastage of the society. They should be dumped and there is no better dumping site than GULF. 
In one hand they will be providing foreign remittance and in other side crime, corruption will also settle down gradually.

And, I could not stop appreciating your view which you mentioned on religion. 
3. Sell the religion, sell Hinduism to 1 billion hindus on the south and sell budhism to 500 millions to the north. We can market Pashupati and Lumbini as a Mecca for Hindus and Buddhist and generate huge amout from there.