Rekha...its called expressing your emotions physically, (or as you said it - love making) when it seems like all the right words have been said, running out of hallmark cards and other commercialized products to express your intense emotions to your partner, the next thing is to show the other person .... like they say ACTION speaks louder then words....Work it girl. OR its simply pure physical pleasure/animal behavior/formerly used strictly for procreation...blah blah blah Aniwayz before, after, during marriage...ahhh serves the same purpose... pure physical pleasure and if you want to add love to the equation - an emotional high. Quick note - don't matter who or what or when or how....make sure he wears dem gloves.